Love is most important word in the English language and yet it’s the most confusing. Fifty First Dates…and Counting is a blog about conquering the mystery of love, trusting your heart, understanding love …and finding lasting love!
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Too date...or not too date, that is the question!
A friend asked me whether I thought he should pursue a relationship with a woman he's been dating. He said, "I really love her". I said, "It matters more if she truly loves you". We put too much value on how we feel and not enough value on how the other person feels about us.
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Thursday, January 20, 2011
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT ...FACT OR FICTION???
Late last night I posted the question, “Do you believe in love at first sight” on Facebook. There have been 33 comments (and growing) posted in response to my question. The discussion is getting intense…people are passionate (no pun intended) about the topic of love.
My opinion…
Love is a feeling that leads to an action. Love is expressed in your actions, but love develops from an emotion you feel at your core. Love starts with a feeling that tugs at your heart and that feeling can develop very quickly …but only if your mind and your heart are open to the possibility. To experience love at first sight you must be uninhibited and unafraid to love.
Yes, I absolutely believe in love at first sight… because I have experienced in first hand. I am free with my emotions, transparent with my feelings, and I am courageous enough to allow myself to be vulnerable.
I have fallen in love at first sight and it’s the best feeling in the world! However, if you’ve never experienced love at first sight then you can’t possibly understand the concept.
Love at first sight is the most pure and innocent kind of love. It’s a love based on raw emotion. It’s not based on monetary gain or selfless values. It’s the kind of love where you have nothing to gain and everything to lose, but you put your heart on the line anyway.
I feel sad for those who have not experienced love at first sight because it’s the closest thing to heaven that you can find on earth. It makes you feel powerful and indestructible.
One person posted this comment on my Facebook page …
“Love is a giving and receiving relationship, the two go together. To love is nothing. To be loved is something. But to love and be loved is everything!”
…WOW!
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
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